Evertjan.
3/12/2014 2:39:00 PM
mirjam <mirjam@actcom.co.il> wrote on 12 mrt 2014 in
soc.culture.jewish.moderated:
> On Tuesday, March 11, 2014 5:17:13 PM UTC+2, Evertjan. wrote:
> Of course it has to do with the pair /family having intermarried.
> A Christian partner of another Christian will never call her `Dirty
> Jew..`. You can not tell tell me or my children how and what we we
> experienced.
I never experienced it.
>> This has nothing to do with "intermarriage", just with mutual respect.
>> In English with a Yiddish accent,
[Joke started by me]
> Yes i know ,,,, we are always Hypersensitive .....in your eyes
Well you seem to apply it to yourself,
and who is your "we"?
Any reason to,
like do you speak English with a Yiddish accent?
I would persume not.
> ......Maybe it is the other side of your idea ....the the Jewish partner
> has a kind of Stockholm Syndrome......or behaves like an Abused child or
> woman Accepting every Accusation as `Deserving it` ?
Please don't shout on usenet, substantive capitalisation is only used in
German.
I is a common conception that [not necessarily semi-Jewish] inter-faith-
marriage leads to [more] bad marriages.
I think this conception is a misconception, Mirjam.
Bad marriages are the result of [mutual] disrespect,
independent of faith.
Sectarian communities are just very active in covering up these bad
marriages, leading to more unhappyness and even cruelty, to eachother and
children. Inter-faith-marriage can even be a way out of such sects.
However, this advice of that grandmother to prevent inter-faith-marriages
has a long history used by people that want to prevent tham for other
reasons, like inducing the religion or faith of one's children.
Of course, being Jewish is not a faith, but the grandmother's false argument
is far more general, like inbetween the different sects of chritianity and
other religions, so I used "faith" failing to find a better word.
>> perhaps the antisemitically hypersensitive
>> could have understood it that way where "Dirty you!" was said,
>> but only where that mutual respect had already gone down the drain.
I could not have said this joke[!] better myself.
Oh, but those where my lines.
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